Cancer, IVF & a miracle baby: Skylar & Dante's story

Skylar and Dante met and married as teenagers. But not long after the wedding, Skylar was diagnosed with cancer—for a third time.

The young couple was not yet trying to conceive. However, knowing another round of radiation treatment would devitalize Skylar’s ovaries, her oncologist recommended that she take steps to preserve her fertility before beginning cancer treatment.

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What patients need to know about pregnancy loss

About 1 in 6 initial pregnancies will end in miscarriage, but 1 in 20 couples with infertility will experience multiple, recurrent miscarriages. There are many reasons why a pregnancy may not make it to term, but it’s never the patient’s fault. Let’s explore each of these medical causes and walk through the testing we recommend for patients after 2 or more pregnancy losses.

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Male infertility: How men can deal with the stress and stigma

Despite the fact that male and female factors play a statistically equal role in infertility cases, female infertility receives more emphasis culturally. But men experience the stress of infertility too, and have been left out of the conversation for too long. Dr. Kevin Doody, co-founder of CARE Fertility, shares his insights about male infertility, including how perceptions of it have evolved — and what men who may have a fertility problem need to know and do today.

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“I focused on what I could control” — Matt’s journey with infertility

When Matt and Carissa first had difficulty building their family, they had reason to suspect it was a female issue. Only later did they realize that a severe male factor was causing their infertility. After giving birth to their (surprise!) identical twins last October, Carissa shared her story of their experience with effortless IVF®. This time, we're hearing from Matt on what that journey was like for him.

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“Be kind to yourself” — Natasha & Sirena’s fertility journey

After six failed IUIs and a miscarriage, Natasha and Sirena finally found success on their fertility journey using IVF. With each using their own eggs and the same donor sperm, they’re building the family of their dreams. They gave birth to Domino in January 2018, and Finnigan followed 23 months later! Here’s Natasha’s story of how they got here, and the advice they share with others.

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Insurance & infertility: The hidden costs patients need to know about

Even if you have insurance coverage for fertility treatment, there's still a minefield of hidden costs to navigate — some of them quite costly. Many patients get in too far before they learn about these surprise costs. If you’re considering seeing a fertility doctor and plan to use insurance, there are a few things you should know before you schedule that first appointment.

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How to develop self-care habits for a happier fertility journey

The stress of infertility is real. And when we're stressed, we may fall back on self-indulgent habits that only make us feel worse. True self-care is about prioritizing your future self over your short-term desires. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be fun! In fact, self-care needs to be fun if you’re going to actually be consistent about it. If you’ve tried to incorporate more self-care into your routine but haven’t made anything stick, you might just need a fresh way of thinking about it — one that works with your existing desires and motivations, instead of against them. Here are a few ideas to spark some inspiration:

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How to survive Mother’s Day while battling infertility

Bouquets of flowers. Hallmark Cards. Exuberant social media posts with photos of beaming mothers holding their newborns some taken thirty years ago, some thirty minutes ago. Mother s Day is not a day many typically associate with pain and loss. But for women battling infertility, the open and seemingly unavoidable celebration of motherhood can reopen wounds both fresh and old. It s important to take care of yourself as you work to build your family. One way to do that is to proactively plan how you ll spend certain holidays that make it a little harder to fight this battle. Another is to connect with others who are going through the same thing, or have been in your shoes before. So we asked our Instagram community for their best tips on how to survive Mother s Day, and here s what they said. 1. Keep yourself busy. Mother s Day is not a day to sit around the house not only because of what the day celebrates, but what day of the week it falls on!

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Infertility is a disease, and patients deserve a fighting chance

Having a biological child is not a luxury — it is what our bodies were designed to do. When they can’t, medical intervention is the natural course of action. Unfortunately, misconceptions about infertility carry over into our healthcare system, despite recognition of infertility as a disease by major health organizations. As a result, most insurance providers still don’t cover infertility testing and treatment, forcing patients to pay out-of-pocket or take out loans to finance their future families. When we downplay infertility as a second-class medical issue, treating it becomes a luxury only the 1% can afford. But fertility is for everybody. Each of us should have affordable access to reproductive medical care, including treatment for infertility. After all, infertility is an incredibly common disease, affecting an estimated 1 in 8 couples in the U.S. alone.

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